Monday, March 29, 2010

Girlfriends are the BEST


My mom has taught me a lot of really wonderful lessons in life, but one of the best things lessons that I ever learned from her was the true value of friendship. I love my girlfriends to pieces and am so grateful for all of their friendships that enrich my life in so many different ways. I consider myself a lucky lady to have the opportunity to share this life with so many wonderful women.
I say this in part because yesterday was Charity's baby shower and I was so happy and honored to be a part of such a fun day. It never ceases to amaze me how much energy and life comes to a room when women gather around a friend to celebrate in her joy; it's times like these that make me feel so full of happiness.
My mom sent me this a while back and I think that it's fitting for this post:

GIRLS IN MY CIRCLE

When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
And then I started to become a woman.
And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends.
One friend is needed when you're going through things with your guy.
Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.
Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities. Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.
One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,
'Another , 'Let's fight together,
'Another , 'Let's walk away together.'
One friend will meet your spiritual need,
Another your shoe fetish,
Another your love for movies,
Another will be with you in your season of confusion,
Another will be your clarifier,
Another the wind beneath your wings.
But whatever their assignment in your life,
On whatever the occasion,
On whatever the day,
Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,
Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself .
Those are your best friends.
It may all be wrapped up in one woman,
But for many, it's wrapped up in several..
One from 7th grade,
One from high school,
Several from the college years,
A couple from old jobs,
On some days your mother,
On some days your neighbor,
On others, your sisters,
And on some days, your daughters.